Starting to see abs!
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Posted:Nov 17, 2012 10:57 pm
Last Updated:Nov 18, 2012 2:12 pm
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Okay, so I hadn't actually posted on the blog that I was working on getting in shape again, but I am. I used to play soccer and basketball daily and at one point even had a 6% BMI. However, life goes on and next thing I knew I was in an extremely stressful job, spent too much time eating for comfort, and thanks to an injury and my now ridiculous schedule had to stop playing both sports for a period of time.
Well, my knee is better, my eating habits are changing, and I'm making a point to get in more exercise. The result so far is that I'm actually getting back in shape again! While I'm not toned like I used to be I am starting to see the fat shed off and the next step will be to get involved in a few exercised beyond sports to help bring the whole thing together, physically speaking. It just feels so good to know that I've already dropped twenty pounds in 2 months by making changes I can live with for a lifetime, not doing some drastic diet and routine that I'll just discard in time.
Also, and this is why I post it here, with my knee feeling better and my stamina increasing overall I am proud to say that I am returning to the better lover that I used to be! Hoping to get to "exercise" that ability with a few more friends soon.
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Where is my underwear!?
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Posted:Nov 15, 2012 11:43 pm
Last Updated:Nov 16, 2012 9:00 pm
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I'm really sick and tired of my roommate situation. Not only are my roommates total dicks (and not in the good way), but they're also slobs. For the longest time I've found this annoying because it meant that I couldn't host friends when we wanted to play, but now it's escalating to something much more irritating- ALL OF MY UNDERWEAR IS MISSING!
The worst part is this probably isn't some sort of prank. My roommates love to toss my dry laundry onto the living room floor so they can use the dryer. It's not even that I'm inconsiderate and just leave laundry in there. Instead what typically happens is I'll be cleaning laundry which will remind one of those two numb-skulls that they should wear clean clothes for a change. So they fire up a wash cycle and it ends before the dryer, so they just dump my still damp clothing on the floor to dry their own. Did I mention that they're dicks?
Anyway, I just had to do a full house search and only managed to find one pair of my underwear jammed down in the couch cushions and another pair between the couch and the wall. So I only have three pairs of underwear right now. Great.
So glad I can safely get out of this lease in two months without any credit damage. Sorry, just had to vent...
Maybe the real question is this: if I showed up at your place for some fun would you be disappointed that there was no underwear to take off?
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Heartbreak over loss
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Posted:Oct 16, 2012 12:46 am
Last Updated:Oct 25, 2012 10:39 pm
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Clearly this blog isn't all about sex. I wasn't sure if it would be, but today I have to post about an event I went to with a platonic female friend. She lost her baby last year right at the very end of the pregnancy as the cord had wrapped around baby's neck. I remember the day that she had to go to the hospital to deliver her lifeless baby girl so vividly that it's hard to believe it's been almost a year.
Today was a day to remember pregnancy and infant loss. I went with my friend and we gathered with quite a few other people, easily a few hundred, at a local church and lit candles. Some got up to tell their stories of loss, others got up to tell how with time they were healing but knew that some of the grief would always remain. I just sat with my arm around my friend while she leaned into my shoulder and cried. While everything was beautiful it was absolutely heart-wrenching. Even now, hours later, I have a huge lump in my throat.
My friend has been through so much. She hadn't been married for long when this tragedy struck and it really ended their marriage. I'm not sure what he had hoped for, but evidently didn't care for who she was in the midst of her heartbreak compared to the generally upbeat and encouraging woman I've known for years. They had wanted a baby, they had a baby, she was beautiful! She is still missed.
I know they say that guys' minds are consumed with sex, but I can honestly say that today I have felt incredibly preoccupied with other aspects of life. I'm writing this while looking at the candle I lit when I got home and I just can't wrap my mind around it all.
If you know someone who has suffered such loss take a moment when you see them to give them a big hug and let them know that you love them.
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My Friends' Wedding Day
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Posted:Oct 15, 2012 1:28 am
Last Updated:Oct 16, 2012 12:37 am
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Before you get all excited about some tell-all sexual encounter I'll save you the trouble and let you know that there wasn't one- so head to another page if you want.
Today a couple of my friends got married. It was really sweet to see a young couple so enraptured with each other. These friends aren't the ordinary young lovers, though. They have had to struggle through vast cultural differences (they aren't even the same nationality), many heartaches that they have endured together and a series of turns in recent months that almost put their marriage and lives together in jeopardy for an inconceivable period of time. Fortunately things worked out and today was the big day.
I was thrilled to get to be present for their wedding. I was honored to get to officiate the wedding. I'd definitely never done anything like that before and it was wild to be up their leading the two of them through ring exchanges and prompting them up to the points of saying, "I do," to each other. Silly me, I got so excited to announce them I almost forgot to have them kiss! I quickly remedied that and man, what a kiss!!! I'm sure they're feeling a whole new dimension to their intimacy tonight!
Sometimes in the mix of having friends with benefits and other NSA encounters I forget just how much the idea of a continuing love relationship does inspire me. For people who can find that sort of thing in any lifestyle I feel it is so incredibly special.
Yeah, not my regular sort of post, but this blog is still pretty new so maybe this is just a part of the regular? Red typing out his wistful thoughts about love, romance and sexual encounters.
Hmm, who knows?
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So much for Sunday night...
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Posted:Oct 12, 2012 4:33 am
Last Updated:Oct 15, 2012 3:46 am
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Last night I told about a first date in my post, A Nice Clean Shave, that was serving the purpose of building trust and chemistry with a new friend. The end result was my shaving her pussy in the shower. We didn't do anything beyond that other than a kiss goodnight and the promise of another, potentially more physical, date Sunday night.
Evidently last night was enough to get the excitement up, though. Earlier in the day today I got a text asking that I stop by to talk this evening. I made my way over after work and rang the door bell. I received another text saying the door was open and I could let myself in as my friend was busy upstairs. I went inside and sat down in the living room. I really am trying to learn more patience and building trust with a new friend that is so enticing certainly strains my patience. As it turns out I was being too patient because a voice called out, "Well, are you coming upstairs?"
Stupid text messages, you never can catch the tone someone is trying to convey.
I made my way upstairs to find my friend on her bed in a see through babydoll without any underwear at all. She looked ravishing! I could see that our hard work the night before had paid off because her pussy looked delicious! I smiled at her as she waved me over to the bed. She began to explain that, as I may have noticed, she hadn't had much sexual experience. We lay there talking for a while, I would run my fingers up and down her legs and tease under the edge of her lacy babydoll top at her nicely shaven lips.
What I came to realize as we talked is that she had plenty of sexual experiences, they were just all the same unsatisfactory ones- guys getting what they wanted from her and leaving it at that. No wonder she wanted to build some deep trust. I can't blame her! She asked me if I knew how to make her wet. I smiled and said that I had some ideas. Within a few minutes we had gotten her out of her babydoll and I was nearly naked, too. I had been kissing on her neck, breasts, down her ribs on one side and to her hip. At this point I began to gently, but firmly, lick from the hip bone down between her legs. She jumped from the contact and I had to pull back to avoid being kneed in the chest!
That was when I saw the embarrassed and sheepish smile I had seen the night before when she admitted her fear of shaving herself. I could tell she hadn't had the best oral experiences from guys even before she told me. I smiled at her and asked if it would be okay for me to try to change her mind. She couldn't help herself, she so wanted to know more, and quickly asked me to try. I slid back down between her legs with my mouth, starting at the base of her pussy I licked up one lip to her clit, slid back down between the lips with my tongue to the base and came back up the other side. Her toes curled and dug into my sides as she lifted her hips to my mouth.
I lifted my head for a second and could immediately sense her disappointment as she wanted me to continue without pausing. I laughed a little and asked her if she trusted me to try something different. She quickly relented and I put her legs on my shoulders, grabbed her hips and rolled onto my back so that she was kneeling with her delicious pussy just above my face. She had such a timid look in her eyes as I glanced up- as though she was scared she would crush me. This was hilarious since she was so small that getting her onto my face was no work at all. I told her she had to lower down. She did so and I began to ravenously eat her delicious pussy as it grew wetter and wetter. She was still so timid, though, and barely moving at all. I pressed my head back into her mattress to get a little space and said, "If you feel the urge just go ahead and roll your hips. Feel free to ride my face."
With that I grabbed the tops of her legs and pulled her down TIGHT onto my mouth working vigorously with my tongue and lips. She quickly began to moan and roll her hips to drive her sweet pussy into my mouth! Soon she was gasping as though she was short of breath and her hips began to roll deeply into my face. I continued to eat away and she reached down under my head pulling my face up into her as she rocked her hips faster and harder! I reached up and began to caress and squeeze her breasts, letting my fingers close around her hard nipples, but keeping control just in case I needed to press against her to come up for air. She was losing it at this point and couldn't finish any of her sentences, "I'm so..." "Oh my Guuuuuuuuuuuh..." "Yes, yes, plea- uh!" I would have laughed but I was enjoying myself way to much as her sweet juices began to fill my mouth!
She rocked for a little while more as I lapped up every last drop. Eventually she just fell over on her side and sighed one of the longest sighs I've ever heard while her one hand rested gently on her firm breast and her other hand wiped the sweat off of my forehead. She started giggling when she caught her breath. We both laughed for a little while.
I will say that more happened, but being as I have plans that will keep me busy tomorrow night until I can get on to post I'll save the rest of the story until then...
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A Nice Clean Shave
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Posted:Oct 10, 2012 11:19 pm
Last Updated:Oct 18, 2012 10:28 pm
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Tonight I arrived a little early to meet with a friend. It was just going to be a dinner date so we could get to know each other better. Chemistry is very important for encounters and I don't want to rush anyone into a physical relationship when they don't feel an inherent trust. Let's leave that to the creeps.
I guess we built some trust tonight, though, haha. When I arrived I found out, as her last text to me had indicated, that she was having a rough day and was running late. She was home, where she was kind enough to host, but behind schedule. When I rang the doorbell she was in her robe. I think it's okay to share that she has fair skin and dark hair. The robe wasn't a long one and I noticed that her legs hadn't been shaved. No major surprise since her hair was dry and she was in a robe. The temperatures have dropped recently.
Well, she was pretty embarrassed and said she was about to hop in the shower. I said that was fine. She said it would take a while because she needed to shave. I jokingly said, "Do you need any help?" She smiled sheepishly and said that she actually would appreciate that very much. I can say I wasn't expecting that as she had been very shy in all of our interaction up to that point and I was really only expecting dinner and conversation tonight- sans nudity.
We went upstairs to the master bathroom and she explained that she always wanted to be clean shaven, but never felt she could safely do it on her own. She would get so scared that her hand would shake and she just couldn't continue. I said that was fine and I wasn't insisting that she be a certain way. She told me that it meant a lot to her and she really wanted to be clean shaven.
I told her I had my gym bag in the car so I could go get whatever I needed to climb in the shower with her and still get out smelling human and like a man. She laughed and thanked me. I returned quickly and we stripped and climbed in. I have to admit she has a beautiful body. We took some time, and I knelt in front of her to get all of her sensitive and private areas clean. We kept it simple, since this was much more than had been expected, and finished rinsing her off before getting out of the shower.
Within a few minutes she was downstairs eating dinner and having a great visit. She wore an incredible dress, form fitting and short, and I couldn't take my eyes off of her incredible legs. We sat across from each other on her back porch after dinner and right as our evening was about to end she smiled at me brightly, uncrossed her legs emphatically allowing me to see she was without panties and oh so clean. She laughed and said that she missed me already, but wanted to hold to our original agreement to just build trust. I was so hard at that moment, but knowing how important trust can be I told her I hoped it wouldn't be long.
Looking forward to some more intimate alone time Sunday night.
I appreciate all of my friends and look forward to further exploring some FWB with her!
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HNW
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Posted:Oct 10, 2012 12:40 am
Last Updated:Oct 18, 2012 10:27 pm
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Here's a simple one, just relaxing on the couch. Realized there weren't many photos that showed my legs. I don't care for them these days, compared to when I played soccer, but I hear they're still nice from my lady friends.
This is why I'm getting back into the swing of things after my knee injury. Time to lose weight, get those soccer legs back, and have some nice material for HNW!
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Wedding Time
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Posted:Oct 9, 2012 12:32 am
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2012 12:34 pm
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Some friends are getting married on Sunday. Pretty cool. I think that sort of commitment to one person is absolutely commendable if you find the right one worth pursuing. One thing I have really enjoyed since switching over to HornyWife.com is how many committed couples there are here! I know the site advertises itself like it's an affair site, but the fact that there are so many couples that play together in one way or another is pretty awesome.
Maybe it's just that there's still a hopeless romantic in me yearning for that day when I ride off into the sunset with that special one- hopefully to meet a group of our friends and have a great night!
I really am wishing my friends all the best on their new life together! It's a big step, but they're awesome people.
So, married readers are you still enjoying your ride into the sunset with your significant other? What has helped keep it great?
And single readers are you still hoping or have you given up and just want "parts" of that sort of relationship (for example: the sex)?
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BBW and cruelty
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Posted:Oct 7, 2012 11:16 pm
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2012 11:55 pm
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I promise I won't make this blog a regular soap box, but there has been something that has really been on my heart and mind after reading a lot of profiles and having a few surprisingly deep first conversations with some BBW friends here.
My sorrow for those beautiful BBW out there that always have to specify not only their body type, but also that people who aren't interested should leave them alone, is immense. I cannot believe that these beautiful women, who are just as human as anyone else, can be treated so cruelly! Despite profiles that are clear I have heard too many stories even these past few days about members who will lead the girls on and then barrage them with insults.
Everyone deserves the opportunity to feel sexy! I cannot believe that some people would waste time to tear down others over their looks. Life is simple, if you don't like something don't look. Why should a woman be attacked for her weight? Why is this so much worse for women then for men? I know guys get fat jokes, but those who attack women are so quick to deny them femininity and sensuality. That just makes me want to wretch.
All body types are beautiful, because beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Unfortunately the appreciators are much quieter than the attackers. Earnestly I request that if you want to be cruel that you say nothing instead. Cyber-bullying is an atrocity these days that is deeply impacting our society. I do hope that if there are those guilty of such things that the site will be quick to revoke membership.
Respect.
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Considering camming
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Posted:Oct 6, 2012 11:58 pm
Last Updated:Oct 18, 2012 10:27 pm
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This is something that has really been on my mind for a while, but I find it odd. Here's why- a lot of the things that turn me on the most happen physically with someone. Masturbation is something I've been doing since a very young age and I think at this point I've just grown tired of it compared to the many, many sexual acts that can be done with another person. The biggest thing behind all of this is that I love the responsiveness. (I never sit with myself going, "Oh, PLEASE, more! I know how I like it! Mmmmm, meeeee, I am so hot!" Because that's ridiculous.)
I don't want cam to still feel like it's just me. I know that in a lot of ways it won't, but it's still not the same as that physical touch. Now, if I could have both then that would be awesome and I would love to co-star with some sensual cammers.
I know I don't want to be one of those lame member cams where you watch the person sitting, smoking, and talking on the phone while they chat online fully dressed. Every time I see those I feel I've been robbed of some of my time.
So, if I cammed solo what would couples and ladies like to see? Guys can watch, but I can tell you already I'm not sticking anything inside myself right now. Sorry, if that's your thing.
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The night facebook won
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Posted:Oct 6, 2012 9:33 am
Last Updated:Oct 18, 2012 10:27 pm
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Well, I am super surprised right now. I joined the community here because I felt like that would be my best chance to continue enjoying NSA and FWB living. (I would love to be FWB with everyone, but the social obligations get strenuous.) I posted throughout the week that I would be about 200 miles away from home, Nashville, in Cordova, TN. There are amazingly hot ladies and couples in the area on this site and I was hoping to meet someone new. No one replied here.
I posted one super ambiguous status on my facebook account before leaving Nashville yesterday afternoon. During the drive I got a text. I sent a reply while I was stopped for gas. (Be safe , don't text and drive.) The reply came back almost immediately. A longtime friend would happen to be in the area, too. She wanted to meet up!
We went out and had a really nice and laid back date. She even took me with her to pick out some new lingerie that we'd both enjoy because she wanted something new and special for the night. Ladies, I love being surprised as your silhouette hits the doorway and you're in whatever slinky or sexy number you have to turn me on. There is also something incredibly hot about getting to go out and find a great outfit while fantasizing for a little while with each other. I'm not even a big shopper, but will gladly join a lady for one of these trips!
Anyway, we decided to go back to her place. I remembered that part of the reason why we hadn't hung out for a while was because back when she lived in Memphis she'd gotten pregnant (not my !). We arrived to let the babysitter go home, my friend's was already asleep. We relaxed for a few minutes before she dismissed herself to try on her new garments. When she returned she led me most sensuously by the waist of my pants to her bedroom where we proceeded to completely ruin what had been a very nicely made king size bed!
Right at the very end as she was moaning for more and I was in deep in her, with protection- one pregnancy is enough, and right as we were both about to be completely spent there was a cry outside her door! Well, that's just the way it goes some times.
I'm still in shock that facebook was my source for such a night and not this site, but I guess it pays to have old friends that still appreciate the time you spend together.
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