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November Evening 2012.
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Posted:Nov 23, 2012 11:26 am
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2012 11:39 am
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I come out from the busy drugstore. You sit waiting in the car as instructed. As I approach the car you smile at me slightly nervously. I prefer the luxury afforded of observing as a passenger and I tell you to drive. Not far along I have you turn into a random vacant lot by the river. I tell you ”get out”. You promptly comply with my demand. I walk to the back of the car and you follow. I gaze at you and see your breath spilling rapidly into the crisp night as it is air illuminated by the street light in the snow filled lot. I open the trunk. You hold my eye contact and I say “strip”. In perfect obedience you give me what I ask. I am most pleased at your typical lack of hesitation. “In” I say. You scamper into the cold trunk. I walk back around the car with your clothing and footwear. I am content when everything is put away in its place. At the stoplight I pull up beside a police car. The officer smiles at me warmly. I nod and smile back.
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Art and Life
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Posted:Nov 8, 2012 6:56 am
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2012 7:00 am
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I have said many times my life is so desirously unbelievable you couldn’t possibly sell it to reality TV. True story! A lifelong close friend describes his time in my company as being “sucked in to a Domina vortex”. The description makes me smile every time. We start out with the best intentions of going for a mere coffee and wind up on some wild adventure where he wishes he had packed a toothbrush. Life garnished with a pure hit of chaos, just the way I like it. Admittedly it is not an easy or uncomplicated way of life but the dividends are absolutely priceless!
Truly I see life as an art to be expressed. The BDSM lifestyle is my medium to practice my craft. My entourage and I gather semi regularly for private munch/play parties. These delightful events keep me saturated and serve as my muse. I have those whose company I very much enjoy and are a given on my invite list. Then I always like to spice it up with a little fresh blood to keeps things interesting.
I met my 24/7 slave at one such gathering. I adore objectification. I had advertised my desire for a human table at a pre event cocktail party I was hosting. She submitted to my service. I used her hard that night. On hands and knees she was perfection holding perfectly still so not to spill and of the beverages placed on her bare back by my guests. Later at a fetish event I shared her with other like minded friends/Dominas.
Our dynamic is now evolved and solidified. However she confesses even after two years she feels her footing is never really grounded. She still is never really sure what may happen next. I suppose this would be considered a “normal” feeling from anyone who gives up control in a total power exchange control relationship. No? She is probably wise not to get too comfortable. I have much still in the plans for her.
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THE RULES
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Posted:Nov 8, 2012 5:41 am
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2012 11:39 am
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1. If you exist in my world in some service capacity you have the privilege to address me as Domina. Of course with respectful consideration for present and or vanilla company always.
2. Greetings and departures will be celebrated ritual of kissing both my hands. You will then ask "may I serve you Domina" or "may I be excused Domina" Occasionally if I am in a generous mood I may offer you my cheeks for you to kiss.
3. Your behavior either in my presence or not is a reflection of my dominance. You will always behave manner-fully. You will be mindful of appropriate etiquette at all times. You will open doors pull out chairs etc. I should be proud to own you. When contemplating any situation you should try to behave as you would if I were right there with you. You will come to understand my expectations of you. You are expected to behave appropriately for any given situation.
4. You will refrain from Phone/texting/pc use in my presence unless specific permission is granted.
5. I will be the first thought upon waking and the last thought before closing your eyes. You will text/call and greet me a good day and inform me as to your undergarment choice as well as text/call lastly before closing your eyes before sleep.
6. Your very body is mine. You must make every effort to care for it as you would any of my possessions. Make good dietary choices, get activity and adequate sleep. Your grooming will be kept at a high standard and be pleasing to me. Genitals must be kept shaved. Nails clean and filed, breath fresh, shaved body, cologne or perfume worn and dressed in a pleasing and appropriate manner.
7. You will successfully complete all tasks and assignments to the best of your ability and on time.
8. You will not sit higher than I. I prefer you physically lower at all time except appropriately when in vanilla company.
9. You will journal at least once within 24 hours each and every time I spend my time with you. You will email me your journal entry unless otherwise negotiated.
10. You will be verbally restricted from responding to me in the negative. You will eliminate the word "no" from your vocabulary. When you wish to respond in the affirmative is you will respond "if it pleases you Domina". If your response preference is preferred to indicate that you wish to decline you may respond "only if it pleases you Domina". I will take your preference into consideration but ultimately the decision is mine.
11. You will ask permission to climax.
12. You will learn the following positions and perform them on command.
Show: Standing straight, eyes forward, hands clasped behind you head and your legs shoulder with apart.
Stay: Stay in the position you are in when commanded.
Heel: Staying on the left side at my heel.
Crawl: Typically a command when I am displeased. Craw on your hands and toes with your belly close to the ground
Fetch: You retrieve whatever item I have sent you to fetch and bring it back to me in your teeth. Your hands are clasped behind your back.
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Welcome to my world.
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Posted:Sep 13, 2012 2:49 pm
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2012 5:44 am
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Welcome to my world. This is the story of me, a Domina, my thoughts and adventures.
Thank you for stopping to read my blog.
Go easy on me now. This is my first attempt at blogging ever. As an adult I have never so much as kept a Diary. You see, my mother read my diary when I was a . Yes, I was busted for my deviant ways that I clearly possessed even way back then. The event marked a huge learning experience in my development. Since, it has hard for me to commit to putting anything in writing that could possibly be used against me.
Truly, I have never believed I posses the gift of expression via the written word. Of course, my slave would tell you otherwise. But that’s what happens when you are blinded with total adoration for another...you see the person as the center of your universe and only in the light of perfection.
So why would I attempt this blogging thing? I expect it will be liberating from my childhood experience. I have always believed you can be stronger for your mistakes and experiences, or you can carry them around like baggage. I see the ability to write as an enviable gift. I marvel at people who can exercise such talent. I suppose I have thoughts I wish to express, more for myself than anyone else. Perhaps it would give someone close to me additional constructive insight. Then again as a Domina, in my world, I have some really surreal adventures. It is good to be me.
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