Random Thoughts - The Key to what a Woman Wants
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Posted:Sep 29, 2012 10:31 pm
Last Updated:Sep 29, 2012 10:44 pm
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Hi All,
I took a trip this aft, to a beach community not an hour north of me. After my staring incident earlier in the day, it seemed like that of the smarter of my moves, and defiantly a better choice. I am really not going to be funny here, or even try to be, because it was surreal to sit on the beach in late September with such a warm day, and watch the moon rise like out of the water, to cast such a light across the waves, to those waves turned to glass, and a sceen from a romantic love store did arrive. More vigilant the waves crashed on the shore as the moon rose in the lower sky, and less as it rose higher into the sky. With each moment passing, I used the time to get back into my task to discover what woman want.
Think about this for a minute, we all really don’t know what we want in life. We have dreams, belief's, thoughts, and even delusions. Look at me, getting caught looking out my window this early afternoon. My little goof up pointed out something I wanted, but did not even know i wanted till it happened. It thought brought to mind the research yet to accomplish, and the completed research that has been. Imagine this, imagine the word work, imagine the meaning of that word work, and think deeply to the thought word work brought to you.
We all want something in our life, but we don’t achieve that goal, our dreams, our thoughts, our beliefs without out it. There are many facts in life that just seem to real to be true, many truths, although powerful knowledge that if we honestly take a moment to think about propel our abilities beyond. Modern Science can explain a lot and the complexity, but modern science's inability to properly explain or share that of what was learned, only confuses what we already know. It many times is biased at best, yet we take it as the gospel according to it's references, and our comfort in the writter and their many accomplishements in life and education. All animals big or small, great or meek have one thing in common, and it’s based purely in the word for which you have imagined as you read this.
Do we know what we really want, until we have been presented with it? Do we have a predetermined understanding of what exactly drives us until we are driven by it. Does one leaning into another tell us anything at all, other than an animalistic understanding that most of us truthfully never understand, but yet guides us, leads us, and allows us the self-freedom to explore further past what might detract us, or hold us back. The key my friend to what a woman wants, is within her, and you must work to achieve her wants and that knowledge, although I have the answer.......
What a woman wants……. Well why would I spoil it now! There is so much to share.
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Random Thoughts - Great Day, Great Views, Oh Crap!
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Posted:Sep 29, 2012 11:40 am
Last Updated:May 16, 2024 10:1 pm
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Hi all!
The forecast today is tantalizing bikini lacking babes, a high of 72F/22C and possibly hours of naughty imagination. If iw as not a male, and got caught! For all of you down south, this time of year in Canada brings on cooler temperatures, great colours, and no more bikini clad sun baking. If this year is like last, the fall here should be a nice warm fall, with no snow (that is such a bad word to someone whom likes summer) and no need to cover up. Yes, your right this swollen bruised faced individual looks creepy looking out his window. Ok come now, I realize that I have not shown my face currently, but I did give you all an image of what my face looked like in an early post. I scared the living crap out of myself last night, looking into the mirror half a sleep, for that always so bumbling trip to the bath room in the middle of the night.
Robert Englund move over, there is a new creeper to contend with…… Staring out the window, at three not so dressed, fall sun bathing woman in their back yard, knowing one of them for years, yet never realizing that she lived so close, and stalker one-o-one, doing it with a face not even a mother could love. Hideous to some and an attraction to all….. If only to look, stare, gawk. How bazar is that, I am standing at my window watching backyards I can see, with a swollen face, massive bruising, and without even knowing that I doing it….. All the while, two yards over I am staring at three women not so dressed who have no clue I am watching them.
While working on this project about What Woman Want, there is more information on what men want, or more appropriately do. Men for example are visual creatures. Each with their own set of standards, desires, wants, and needs. Some are just plain out psycho, thinking that they control anything and everything around them. Some are outright freaky doing things like stalking woman (and other men, which apparently is more appropriate or acceptable), while most of us are visual creatures with some level of control issues, whom do gawk at what we like. The difference though between men and woman, is that men always seem to get caught. Why is that? Because we seem to zone right out to this place, where coming back from is not always that easy. Give that little half smile; drop your jaw to the floor look, and damn-it, caught. Yep, I got caught – end of show! Damn-it if I was not a man! Thank you warm fall days, the views of summer are still around, no need to wait another 10 months for them to return. Wonder if I have chance now….. What am I delusional….
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Radom Thoughts - A wonderful week at the hospital!
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Posted:Sep 27, 2012 3:53 pm
Last Updated:Sep 29, 2012 11:40 am
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Hello All!
Imagine for a second face only capable of coming out of the best boxing match or bar fight, sitting in the ER for 12 hours waiting for some Doctor whom is never going to show up till 7 the following morning. One side of the face so swollen that the eye is closed from the swelling, yet something is not exactly right, there is no bruising. No bloody gashes, no swollen knuckles, no bloody teeth, just a swollen face. There was no sign of a fight, no sign that any blows where thrown, no sign that anything happened. But an extremely swollen face, a closed eye, and the in ability to look anything except like that of a bad imitation of Popeye, and a long countless hours with little to no sleep in the city’s most interesting emergency room.
Ok so now you have this image, this poor sap, looks like a bad imitation of Popeye with one hell of a puffy face, and you thinking to yourself what a smuck. First, thank you all whom thought that, second, and for another post; the ER in any inner city is an interesting place to spend your Friday night/Saturday morning. As much as you may believe it’s a dangerous place, if you take into account most modern cities now have two officers who attend with any person they bring in, and the security for the most part out numbers the patients, there is at least semblance you might be ok, well ok when you’re in my state you just believe you’re absolutely ok, what could be worse? Death? Well, that might have just happened all on its own, so no fear there.
After 10 hours, the befriending of 3 different individuals whom where there on their own, one there because he was found wondering the streets, I realized that you’re so much treated based on the relativeness of death from your injury but more as a number and how many hours you have sat there. If when walk into an ER room they can tell you to take a number, from ticket machine 1 or from ticket machine 2 and lay some type of understanding of how those numbers get bumped around, it would make for a better stay. Now serving number 3 from the blue tickets, oh wait, wait, now serving ticket 4 from the ambulance dispenser instead, your going to be another 4 hours, it would have made a better stay all the way around.
Needless to say, after a few days in the hospital, two surgeries to release pressure in my face, and a hospital induced infection I am finally home, and ready tomorrow to get back to my wacky discoveries of what a woman wants. I left you all hanging, and without an explanation, well that just would not be me. A stay in the hospital always shows you whom your closet friends really are, a good visit or two, and a loss of 25lbs on crappy food, my clothing no longer fitting, which allows my pants to fall off at the wrong times; I can say it was an experience that I am happy I won’t be repeating any time soon. I did meet some interesting people, had an alergic reaction to some perferm, and a minor inffection from what ever the hell they did saturday in the ER, I am most certenly happy to be home, and back to work tomorrow.
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Radom Thoughts – What Women Want – Physical Check
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Posted:Sep 20, 2012 2:06 pm
Last Updated:Sep 27, 2012 3:54 pm
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Day 3: I am late getting this posted, but never the less, I can’t ignore what I learned today. I once thought that the reason a woman leaned into me was that she wanting to get closer, and the better I smelled the more turned on she would be. As I got older, I stopped paying attention to this action, because at the time I was married, and have you ever been on the receiving side of a woman scorn by a cheater? Your neighbours want to run and hide, and if you happen to marry my ex-wife, god have mercy on your sole, invest in a good set of ear plugs. To say we did not get along in the last few years, well I won’t use this as a bash session, it’s over, time to move on.
Now that I am single again, I had noticed that at social functions which I attend from time to time, that woman had been leaning in, but with honesty not really thought of it until the other day when we stupidly asked a group of women what they wanted. I have an answer, which I am with holding, but I will say this. Guys the next time you contemplate the 2 dollar for the bottle of Stetson au du toilet in the I29 Truck Stop bathroom, don’t. Get the gum to cover up your bad breath from your fat boy, use the facilities, and move right on.
You know what I am talking about, that vending machine at the door which grabs your attention, all though some guy is in there dying; with the hot blond on the sticker, in the sultry bikini, that just covers the edges of her supple yet perfectly round and fake tits, with the slight glimpse of fabric which covers the almost never ascertainable ass. That leaves our minds in a state of bliss for that split second, as it always distracts us long enough, grab our attention. It might even been a set of machines, that tells us jokes (boy do we seem like a simpleton) but always contains some type of insulting, actually does not work because they go absolutely flat when put on, “Ribbed for Her Pleasure” condom that suggests to us that’s what she want’s (and I mean the hot blond bomb shell with perfect proportions on the sticker of the machine, not your girl) – Not that we should learn how to us it, or that we should be not be fantasying about the sticker girl - and a Tropical Breeze Fruity offering, which well, I just won’t go down that road...
Why you ask, why would you not want to get that bottle, or even why you would not want to put a nice coating on, before going out. Women do it all the time, I still can smell my date from the other night on my dress shirt, and it’s been to the cleaners and back this week. Why guys, because women use their senses – animalistic senses – even when looking for an adult play partner. If you don’t appeal to those senses, which you by the way have no control over, you will cause her to move on. I won’t put a spoiler in here, because I can, but instead I am going to leave you pondering what it might be.
I will close out my blog by saying that watching a woman when you first meet her, will tell you what kind of mood she is in. Not that she is reaching in for a kiss or planning to get all that close to you. Sorry I know, I busted someone’s bubble, but hey you get to look down her top, is that not something? If you pay attention though, you will know what she is looking for, is it that she is looking for a partner, looking for a mate, or looking for a good raunchy night, is pretty clear by removing your absolute knowledge of woman, paying attention to her body language, and understanding the signs she gives off because of her spider senses. – Bunkus or truth? Is this really how woman know what they want?
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Random Thoughts – What Women Want - Day 2
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Posted:Sep 18, 2012 8:54 pm
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2012 3:53 pm
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Day 2: I must say truthfully that I am no better off today then I was yesterday in reaching a deadline that seems a bit short, for such a tall request. I am not frustrated, or discouraged, I did turn red, and have had an interesting day. Thinking that it might be good to just ask what women wanted, I called a gentleman I know whom has a known track record of getting the job done, as I and my business partner say, and we headed down to the localy coffee shop. Although Timmies (for you from the US Tim Horton’s / Timmies is Canada’s equivalent to Dunkins) won’t be the same for anyone there, it did bring a good grin and chuckle and a successful date. Yeah me, sorry no sex to tell about – , broken window, cell phone, whoops dad – as I am home way to early for any type of romantic endeavors, sorry not even in the car…. Darn it !
We thought that with our brain storming today, we would stop reading top 10 lists, and the top things that get women, and show them what they want. Thinking that statement was full of holes, and the admittance of a few that even a woman herself does not know what she wants, we would just flat out ask and figure out later how to use the data we collected. It took some work for all three us to get anyone to talk, an interesting conversation with a manager, and we were all set up to have a number of conversations which just blew our minds.
I understand that many men believe that a woman is indecisive, but to hear most whom we ask today to say the exact same thing, sort of set this research for a loop. While my favorite comment was one where they quickly dismissed our question or just flipped over to another topic to hide what they actually where thinking. LOL Sorry guys, at this point no break threw on exact answers. All of us with science backgrounds, graduates of some type of graduate program, and being lab grunts at some point in our life’s, one asked questions, one watched (ok observed) while the questions where being asked.
My business partner had a better chance with getting straight answers, as both of us guys struck out many times over asking “what as a woman do you want?” strange enough though that changed when a woman we have never met before walked in the door and sat behind us. In my best Element T-Shirt today (protest from yesterday’s day of rest work day) and jeans, I was not as dressed as those around me, no tie, no dress shirt, defiantly nothing screamed working professional, and I was not in IT where what you want garb either (for those of you whom has a strange IT in your IT department. Because of the way my business partner noticed her as she walked past, she watched her the whole time she was in the restaurant, and suggested I ask the questions this time. Which lead to the invite to further discuss the topic over dinner, and her phone number and a time to meet, if I was at all possible to join her tonight?
Ok here was the interesting part, I can’t explain. I was not well dressed, I had no type of fragrance on, she kept leaning into to me, and had some type of interest in my height. Yes my looks played a role in her interest, asking her this evening at dinner, features like my smile, the way my eye’s looked topped that list, but what got me was it something that she was doing, leaning into me that had me interested. The rest of the night, is for a different blog. Have you ever caught yourself leaning into someone that was of interest to you, and do you have any reason or knowledge why?
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Just Venting
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Posted:Sep 18, 2012 7:02 pm
Last Updated:Oct 6, 2012 8:17 am
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Why do today expect that their parents cover their butts when they are more then able to work? Left highschool, and had a job before i even went to my graduation. I have a , who now has been graduated from highschool since june, spent the summer doing his own thing, and says it's too much work to find a job, but thought i would cover the window he brook accently, with a base ball he was throwing around with my younger sun. Doh,yes your bother will catch a hard baseball when you whip it at his head, sure that's an accedent. Sorry, just needed to vent.
I will post happier thoughts later. Hi all!
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What do women really want monday
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Posted:Sep 17, 2012 8:38 pm
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2012 3:53 pm
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Hello All,
With the drama now behind us, my blog back to being my blog and not a war zone to hurt feelings, and attack. I really would like to get back to my random thoughts. Which i will try to make a bit more entertaining, so let’s get back!
When I was married, I really never understood what my now ex-wife wanted. I read the books, I followed the advice of those around me, and I was very attentive. Took the to their activities, we had a bi-weekly date night, was even very romantic – according to her friends not her- I never went out with the boys to the strip club as she saw that was cheating. There must have been something I was doing, or not doing that was not exactly the way she wanted.
So today when a whom we do her internet marketing for asked me to come into meet her, I slightly protested as it's my day off, but i was curious as to what she had in mind. The meeting focused was focused on the guys in the office, and when she asked the guys in our office to write an article for her about “What Women Wanted” that was factual and comical, I thought oh shit, I am fucked. I have in my employment, a quiet reserved computer program that can’t even tell you the difference between a football and a hockey puck, a computer technician whom is just out of school and would like to see a woman naked but lives in his parents’ house, and my business developer whom thinks the only reason his wife stays with him, is because he has a big cock and a stud in bed. Without really understanding that he’s not even close, because at some point the relationship turned to his support of her shopping and habit, and every time she cuts him off, our business has a growth spurt. Thank you greedy goddess of shopping for the increase in my business….. Bad I know.
We look like the bad news bears of men, and defiantly not the group of guys to answer the question presented. Sitting around the board room table, we were so sad after she left, dragging out our lists, trying to limit our answers to less than the 30 or so we came up with, and worse of all, two guys so uncomfortable with themselves from continual rejections, I thought they both where going to cry. We were sad, revenge of the nerds, meet the normally socially challenged male and you get the picture.
How could I not say it was great Monday! How else to start the weekend on a topic that even the most sexed men don’t fully know……. Time to knock her bra off…..But what do women really want? And where the hell did my two weekend go, it's not tuesday!
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Please Read - Flaming - So Uncool!
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Posted:Sep 16, 2012 6:48 pm
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2012 3:54 pm
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Good Evening All,
So my blog is in the middle of a flame war, cool! It’s been interesting reading the random thoughts of the blogs of all whom have commented on my first Hello World like blog. You’re all interesting, unique and beautiful individuals, and each of your blogs will be visited from time to time as I enjoyed reading them today and yesterday. I will be there to help each of you to rise to whatever level of success in the rankings you want to achieve, and may comment on postings as I hope all of you do to, as I look forward to those comments.
I also thank all of you whom sent me emails in private over the past few days, and as I have written back to all of you (as a standard member, I don’t know if you get my reply, but I hope you have), I am really surprised by the controversy a simple hello world type blog has brought in two days. Tempers have really flared up, and so have my views…..
I do ask my blog not be linked to one’s discourse, unless it’s I whom has caused it, and ask that link be removed from the posting today because it has nothing to something I said or believe. I though do welcome your linking if they are directly related to something I believe or say. But my comments which are attached to my blog are a way other users comment and communicate we me, and I do not want them linked into other blog rolls. I appreciate that some of the comments were not appreciated, but I share with you that I appreciate everyone’s comments; I don’t appreciate the link that has occurred there. Their comments are their own thoughts, welcomed by me, as I appreciated yours. I welcome their comments, and respect their thoughts and concerns. I really appreciated that some of the comments shared; as I appreciated the offers and welcome that you’re shared in yours. Please though remove the link from your post regarding, as that is not welcomed, we all have a right to share our thoughts, but if you have discourse take it up with them directly.
Truthfully all, I appreciated all your comments, and I have read all your blogs. Thank you for posting, what interesting insights and interesting reads, and I look forward to further posts. I just don’t agree that my blog is the place for this discourse, and offer any assistance I can to help resolve it.
RomanticNympho
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Radom Thoughts
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Posted:Sep 15, 2012 7:33 pm
Last Updated:Sep 16, 2012 9:04 am
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Good Evening all,
A quite day, work is done for the week, and Tuesday is going to come way to quick. I am not sure if I like the Tuesday to Saturday schedule I have found myself on, but i am certain by the time I get use to the schedule, I will adjusting back to the Monday to Friday schedule yet again.
Not expecting the results of last night, it is notable to share with those whom might be interested an idea which just sort of happened. It’s the time of year when Farmers whom are looking for extra income, open corn fields for us city and country folks whom like to wonder aimless through a maze to our own insanity and curiosity.
Being coxed by a friend of mine, having a free night to do so we headed out to the corn maize south of the city here. If you have never gone, here are a few thoughts: Go at sunset, just before dusk, take a flash light, and even in a group split up and take that special someone along with you.
Last night was perfect, meeting up with a group of our friends and their friends; it made for a very interesting blind date, which ended very nicely. I nice walk, a few laughs, and a whole lot of listening. I may not be looking for something serious, but the fun with and without clothing, made it a great night. Check it out if you have a chance, if you play your cards right, without booze there is some value in the experience….
Thank you all for posting on my blog, I most defiantly look for those whom spam. Thank you all for stopping buy and letting me know. There seems to be a few here who do, but thus be the internet and the almighty buck. Thanks again all, talk soon.
RomanicNympho
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My first Blog Post
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Posted:Sep 14, 2012 10:41 pm
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2012 3:54 pm
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Hello HotMatch.com! This is my first post, and looking forward to posting more, as the days progress.
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To link to this blog (RomanticNympho) use [blog RomanticNympho] in your messages.
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