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Nothing wrong with Poly, but...
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Posted:Feb 20, 2013 1:39 pm
Last Updated:May 16, 2024 9:44 pm
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If I say no because…
… you’re picking a person who is in frenzy, or
… you’re picking a person who is toxic, or
… you’re picking a person who has no self-respect, or
… you’re picking a person who has no respect for me, or
… you’re picking a person who has no respect for our relationship, or
… you’re picking a person who does not have the social skills necessary to balance the demands of what you’re asking of hir, or
… you’re picking a person who does not have the social skills necessary to protect hirself from what you are asking of zir, or
… you’re picking a person who is a threat to my anonymity, or
… you’re picking a person who is a threat to your anonymity, or
… you’re picking a person who is a threat to the peacefulness of the life you
claim to want, or
… you’re picking a person who is a threat to the peacefulness of the life I want, or
… you’re picking a person who has nothing to offer us beyond your need for immediate sexual gratification, or
… you’re picking a person who will help you continue with your own unhealthy mental attitudes about “fixing people”, or
… you’re picking a person who will help you continue with your own unhealthy mental attitudes about “saving people”, or
… you’re picking a person who will help you continue with your own unhealthy mental attitudes about “rescuing people”, or
… you’re picking a person simply to teach me a lesson, or
… you’re picking a person who will get in the way of us reaching our mutually
defined goals, or
… you’re picking a person despite warning signs that you see, or
… you’re picking a person despite warning signs that I see, or
… you’re picking a person who is emotionally unstable, or
… you’re picking a person who is threat to my emotional stability, or
… you’re picking a person who is a threat to your emotional stability, or
… you’re picking a person who is physically unsafe, or
… you’re picking a person who is a threat to my physical safety, or
… you’re picking a person who is a threat to your physical safety, or
… you’re picking a person who is a threat to the safety of our families, or
… you’re picking a person who is a threat to the safety of our belongings, or
… you’re picking a person who is a threat to my financial security, or
… you’re picking a person who is a threat to your financial security, or
… you’re picking a person out of pity, or
… you’re picking a person because you feel sorry that they don’t have
someone, or
… you’re picking a person for ANY REASON WHATSOEVER that falls outside of the goals of our relationship and lifestyle choices…
… then I call bullshit. It isn’t jealousy. It is bullshit. Whether you are choosing a person for purposes of friendship, sex, play, service, or whatever… it is still bullshit.
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Posted:Sep 22, 2012 2:09 pm
Last Updated:Feb 20, 2013 1:40 pm
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I'm a bit of a nerd when it comes to statistics, and how they are used and mis-used to manipulate peoples perceptions.
They bury the info on here, but if you go to Community, Blogs, Browse by Location, View all for this region, you will find the stats for Men seeking women. Go to the bottom and click More to find Women seeking men.
After all that digging, I discovered in my region there are:
11,448 Men seeking Women to
632 Women seeking Men.
But it gets worse guys...
When I clicked to see ALL Women seeking Men in my region, they could only show me 340 profiles, and only 52 had logged in withing the LAST 3 MONTHS!
Okay, I didn't do that kind of digging on the 11,448 guys, but if only 10% had logged in withing the last 3 months (comparable to the women) that's still 1,144 men to 52 women.
So, what do you think about those odds?
Had a friend living on the east coast for a while, said the stats were much more in his favor.
What's the ratio look like where you're from?
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