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Jerk Off Buddy
Jerk Off Buddy So the other day I was asked by a guy to be his jerk off buddy. I'm a straight guy here looking to please women whether they're single or part of a couple. However, I do try to be generous to others who are trying different things because I get that exploring sexuality is a journey that often requires a generous community. Anyway, the guy wants to cam and so we do. I have to say it was really mundane for me. I think a few things were in play: First, I'm not entirely sure that my friend that night was as straight as he tried, very adamantly, to indicate. As soon as he saw me on the cam aroused I could tell it had a big impact on him. Look, guys, if what excites you is seeing another man then that's fine. That goes for single guys who want to watch, or husbands/partners that really want to see a guy having sex, even if it is straight sex. There really is nothing wrong with that, and it doesn't bother me. Just don't spend a long time trying to tell me one thing and then thinking about another. I've yet to meet a person on the board who likes to be fed lies. Next, it was no easy thing for me to stay turned on. Pretty quickly I bailed on the return cam and went back to watching some friends on their cam. Evidently I completely missed the money shot because the next thing I knew there was just some cum on a towel and then the cam ended. Look, fellas, I am super turned on by women. I think the female is God's perfect creation- that's why God stopped after he made a woman, there was nothing new that would top such a perfect creature. The ladies out there know this when they come in contact with me, because they will get my undivided attention. That's the thing, it's undivided attention. If a guy wants to watch and that turns him on I think that's fantastic! I may even notice that he is pleasing himself to what we're doing. What I won't do is get distracted from pleasing a lady friend because of a guy. Here I want to stress that I have no problem with guys getting involved. Just know that I don't need anything from you.* Attending to the needs of any ladies present is my top, and only, priority. Like I said above, I am all for being generous. I share and I play nice. However, seeing a guy get off isn't what pleases me as much as knowing what I'm involved in can be such a turn on. Finally, I want to say that I'm not mad, but I do feel used. Feeling used is just a lousy sensation when it was based on lies. I'm all for being spent, barely able to walk and exhausted beyond comprehension to please friends. Just don't lack appreciation. I didn't even get a thanks. How lame is that? He said exhibitionism was his turn on. Maybe he knew I wasn't watching, because I didn't get a thanks for that, either. At least in that instance I understand. *Of course this isn't to say that I won't appreciate input from a husband on what he wants me to do to his wife. I just can't ignore when she asks for more. Red is ready |
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10/2/2012 11:41 pm |
Hi Espressso Welcome to blogging. All of that sounds pretty good fun to me... This is a open invitation for you to visit my blog: oziealt. I discuss a lot of kinky stuff on my blog. Please drop by anytime and leave a comment or question so I know you visited. Cheers BBG XXX Most Watched Blog on HotMatch.com
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oziealt, thanks for the response. Of course it helps to remember to change the member name when pasting your pre-typed comment. I just can't ignore when she asks for more. Red is ready
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10/4/2012 1:05 am |
oziealt, thanks for the response. Of course it helps to remember to change the member name when pasting your pre-typed comment. I am really sorry about that... I have been trying to keep my invitations as short as possible and I do use a cut and paste system. I did actually read your blog and my short response was based on what I read. Cheers BBG XXX
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Yes indeed Vlad I am really sorry about that... I have been trying to keep my invitations as short as possible and I do use a cut and paste system. I did actually read your blog and my short response was based on what I read. Cheers BBG XXX I just can't ignore when she asks for more. Red is ready
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