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Internet warriors  

evergrnstatewife 53M/63F
1582 posts
9/27/2012 4:38 pm

Last Read:
9/30/2012 1:01 pm

Internet warriors


I’m stumped.

You write the perfect ad; it’s clear, describes your wants, desires and needs. You get lots of replies, most of which leaving you scratching your head.
But then there’s a reply or two. They intrigue you. Their grammar is correct and readable. They say the right things carefully adding a seductive line or statement as needed. It’s almost too perfect to be true.
We exchange pictures and and the more intimate flirting beings. Phone sex happens. It’s hot and enjoyable. My wife cums madly as they share thoughts, words and soon to be actions. He fucks her well through the phone and satisfies her mind with cool catchy innuendos.

His name was Jim. We’ve all encountered a Jim here and there; the keyboard Romeo, the picture collector. You know, the internet warrior, the perfect match. He’s perfect in every way with the exception of skin to skin contact. I am sure there will be another Jim in her life again, but we hope, not soon.

Why is that? My wife and I were discussing this last night. Why would men ever answer an ad for long term committed sex when it never reaches past the comfortable barrier? It's not for her lack of trying mind you. My wife loves sex, especially with a skilled lover. But with each invitation comes a reason why the encounter can't happen. The reasons are always vaild. But every time? It makes you want to ask,'why did you reply to our ad?'
Perhaps we offer something intimidating? But again, that can be worked out with conversation. Is fantasy better than reality?
Perhaps it’s the ‘how close can I push the envelope’ thrill. Perhaps they just enjoy playing games and leading people on? I don’t know. I don’t think we’ll ever know. For those of us who’ve encountered guys like Jim before we just vent, express distaste, and move on. But what about etiquette? or does that apply here? 'Hey, this isn't what I want,' or 'I'm not sure about' this or that.
For us, searching for a bull for her, which we’re doing now, is a long and tedious process. We don’t partake in the club scene, which only leaves the internet and various magazines as an outlet.

My wife and I know there are good sincere men out there. She knows personally as she’s shared her sexual life with a few of them over the years.
We just wish those guys outnumbered the Jim’s of the world.


Shared wife -evergreenstatewife


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9/28/2012 9:52 pm

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