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Does this bug you too?
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Does this bug you too? OK, first time ever blogging. Just need vent on this. One thing that bugs me is when I send an e- I hardly ever get a response. Now I can understand not replying a short "hey let's meet" kind of e-. I usually don't respond them myself. What gets me is when I take some time, read a person's profile, then wright several sentences, or a short paragraph or two, and then get no response. Now I don't think just because I took the time and effort to wright something a person or persons give me a positive response. I do think common courtesy would be write back a short "thank you, but not interested" at least let the person know that was received and that the effort was appreciated. Am I off on this? Let me know your thoughts. |
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9/21/2012 5:45 am |
Which in my opinion make them really self centered and not courteous. Thanks for the response.
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9/21/2012 8:21 am |
[blog 911]Welcome to bloggerville! Congrats on your first blog. Well, I hate to say this but I'm just as guilty as others when it comes to not writing back. As you grow to blogging more you will understand. I do not even answer my blogger comments as much as well. It's not intentional sometimes I just don't have the time to do so. I will take your blog into consideration and be abit more sensitive to people who write me. But, I do blog on occasion and tell them that if I do not respond back, its because my time is limited. Thanks and again nice to meet you! Awaiting you
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9/21/2012 8:29 am |
Its difficult to get a response no matter what site you are on. Women get alot more messages than men.
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I have an auto reply message to all emails. It save a lot of time with the "thanks, but no thanks" responses. If I have stopped by your blog, please be sure to sign my permission slip Pimp Me, Pimp My Blog, But Let Me Do The Same With You  
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I agree that in a perfect world, everyone would be gracious enough to say, 'Thanks, but no thanks'. But this place is FAR from perfect. I've sent very polite 'rejections' in response to thoughtful and well-written emails, only to get hit with a rude reply-everything from 'You think you're too good for me?', to, 'Fuck you, you stuck up cunt! You're ugly and I wouldn't fuck you anyway!' These are the 'men' who ruin it for guys like you. P.S. It's 'write', not 'wright' . I only mention it because you seem like a decent dude and women tend to pay attention to spelling and grammar- hope I didn't offend you.When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load...
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Its difficult to reply to each and every email especially when you receive a lot each day. Time doesn't allow for it. It is not disrespect, for me it is a time issue.
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HI I do understand how you feel. I am a user for 8 yrs & at first I was like ho hum who do I choose ? What am I looking for? What do I want? Never mind on how you have replied & the "NO RESPONSE" happens. NO WONDER between both sides folks wonder if ANYONE IS REALLY REAL & or if they are collecting numbers. Well you have to start by READING THE PROFILE FIRST ! Their likes dis likes what kind of partner they are seeking what kind of "relations" or associations they need. OK let me quit that you are OLD ENOUGH the lingos of dating.LOL! I sympathize those who experiences this because IT IS ANNOYING! IF YOU LOVE SEX ENJOY VENTURES EXPLORING DIFFERENT BODIES with habits this is great but sssoooo many use & abuse the number one factor IS TRUST...now you wonder how is trust has to do with this= ALOT! If they cant say sorry but thak you best wishes then they are doing as you say "PLAYING THE GAME" = thats dangerous! I enjoyed each & everyone of my play mates. I know their schedule is as crazy as mine, I know how they live, I know every source of what they like love hate... THEY EXCITE ME for only one purpose is to get laid fuck me good open communication is always...whether they are whispering thier pleasures while I am hollaring mine or casual bed talk. PLEASURE is so inviting when & if you can get hooked up. I hate the guessing game on that side of things which does GET ON MY NERVES! Well let me quit soap boxing on you~ just hope you have HAPPY HUMP HUNTING & this finds you well! ~~nymphnNEED1~~
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9/21/2012 4:25 pm |
Thank you for all your responses. I agree that it is not a perfect world, but if we don't at least try to make it perfect it will only get worse, hence the blog. I also do understand how you can get overwhelmed, or even get distracted and miss replying. I do think the "auto reply" is a bit of a cop out. That to me is the same as not replying at all. I guess what I'm looking for is the personal touch. I took the time to write (thank you gottaring) a good e-mail, so I should expect(perfect world here) a nice response in return. I know there are assholes who won't and can't take no for an answer. To them I say you are ruining it for the most of us. Oh, and thank you for pointing that out, gottaring. I can read on a masters level, but I can't spell to save my life. Nobody is perfect.
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9/21/2012 4:37 pm |
nymphnNEED1 I agree. I'll look through someones profile and they have told me everything they don't want. Now I can understand how people can get frustrated by constantly getting e-mails from people who don't read their profiles and don't respect their wishes, but I've read a few that I know what they don't want, but what DO they want? I enjoy sex in many different ways. I'll try anything once, sometimes twice. Enjoy life, enjoy the adventure!
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Or even worse...been chatting or emailing with someone for a while...everything seems great...lots in common...it looks like you could really have some fun if you were to get together...and then you make the offer to meet in person...and then NOTHING they just disappear!!!! How frustrating is that? If you are on here to just 'Play' and not to 'Meet and 'Really' 'Play'' then say so, don't drag the Real ones along!!
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