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Cross Dressing, submission and bondage
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Cross Dressing, submission and bondage I don't claim to be the worlds greatest authority on either of these subjects, but they are subjects that occupy my mind a lot. Cross dressing for me started around puberty. I hear a lot of cross dressers have that same experience. Learning about your body and realizing what feels good and all that goes along with it. My introduction was through bathing suits not being worn any more, so I confiscated them. Visualizations of being bound and having layers of tight clothing on fueled my pubescent years. It wasn't until I found the internet chat rooms that I discovered submission. People entering a chat room as if it were a great hall with a serving area, a place where the Dominants would sit and chat with one another and a huge entry / exit to the garden.. all created in cyberspace. It was quite an introduction to a Gorean style of service. Though initially in this room as what appeared to be a dominant profile, after a time I was shown by someone more in the know, that I was indeed to be submissive. A caring nurturing type person who only wanted to help others. So, how does someone tie all this together? I wish I had a definitive answer to that. The trick is always to be happy with who you are first, then find or know of others who perhaps are looking for someone like you. That is where I hit the wall. I'm not gay, at least not in the popular definition of the word. I still love dressing up and want to learn more. My hopes and desires are to find someone who is looking for someone like me that isn't in Europe, or some far off land, and wants to help me grow as much as i want to compliment their desires. We all want to have a good time, "get our needs met". We all hope to find someone, or some people who we can enjoy our common interests with. All I can say at this point is if you seek someone who likes being tied up from time to time, likes being dressed as a girl quite often, and want to play, please contact me. ask and we can hopefully chat some time. @}-- |
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9/2/2012 1:43 pm |
Hiya Submdj You'll find out a lot about submission in my blog... It’s great to see you have a blog on HotMatch.com. As a fellow blogger I have to tell you I really enjoy blogging. You’ll find lots of interesting kinky stuff in my blog. I write practically every day and I'm the "Most Watched" blog on HotMatch.com. Please drop by and visit me: oziealt so you can see my sexy pics and kinky stories. I’m very happy if you want to advertise your own blog with my readers. Just leave a brief comment on my blog so they know who you are. I am sure that many of my readers will give your blog a look and who knows – maybe even watch out for your next blog posts. Also it's a great place to meet like-minded people. Cheers, BBG XXX
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1 post 9/2/2012 2:49 pm |
Hello back, Not sure if I call you oziealt or BBG as your signature above says. I wanted to thank you for the comment on my first blog posting here. I am not a HUGE blogger, and have only blogged here and there across the inter webs. I must say I am happy to see that you are happily serving your Master and that you both enjoy that service. I have been in service for about 5 years, but the amount of play is zero this past year. My service has boiled down to house boy, which I am okay with. The knowledge that I wrote of above, about that One person who is out there and drawing near is still a strong sensation. I was glad to read that your Master allows you to top submissive males. If only you were closer than the network connection. "sigh" I look forward to sharing more and thank you again for your kind words. Everyone has their view and vision of submission. Learning is a constant process boy tom / submdj / Sister Ida @}--
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